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6/18/22

There is a lot of tension in our house. Paul tried to help Ethan with his car. Ethan didn’t ask for help and got mad that Paul remove the broken part and started to fix it.

Paul’s intension was good. Ethan has repeatedly asked Paul not to “TOUCH” his car. Paul is beside himself trying to hold on to what little relationship they have right now. Sometimes he over steps and it causes conflict. It makes tomorrow a hard day for both of them.

It isn’t always Paul’s fault for arguments and disagreements. Sometimes it makes it hard to be around the house. They mostly just ignore one another. They avoid being on the same floor of the house at the same time.

I know that if Paul just stops “trying” and “helping” and when Ethan moves out, then things will heal between them. That is NOT happening anytime soon. Ethan thinks Paul is just stupid and Ethan doesn’t like Paul telling him what to do. 

Tomorrow is Father’s Day. We have a picnic we are attending. I am looking forward to it. We will see if these two can pull it together and be civil.



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