Ethan’s Journey

​After work today Avery and I drove to the Cheesecake Factory for my birthday dinner. We met my in-laws there.  Avery ordered an alcoholic beverage off the menu. My little adult baby. ❤️ Paul was mad that he forgot his reading glasses. He hates that he needs them and refuses to bring them in places that require him to read. He hasn’t accepted that this is a normal aging process and it is ok. He told me I was going to have to read him the menu. I started reading it to him and he became annoyed with that. He suffered through squinting and adjusting the length of the menu. Avery got a picture of him pouting about his eyesight while trying to read. She said his face stayed like that the entire time her read the menu. Our meals came and were delicious. Our waitress was amazing. She anticipated needs excellently, forgot nothing and was very personable. She also had a wonderful sense of style with the cutest phone cover and brilliantly artistic nails.  I put in a positive review for ...

​We got a letter in the mail yesterday dated 7/28/26 stating Ethan’s health care coverage ended on 7/31/26. Cool. Nothing like giving us a heads up. We need to refill some of Ethan’s medications. So it is kind of important. This is not the first time we have been in this situation. I call the number on the letter we received. I explained the letter and that he no longer had insurance. She told me he can’t apply for insurance because it wasn’t open enrollment and followed it with “is there anything else I can help you with?” Anything else you can help me with? You didn’t help me with anything. “Because his insurance has ended, doesn’t that count as a qualifying event?” I asked, knowing full well it did. “Yes.” Then there were crickets. I allowed her a moment to process. “He can go to the NYS website and plans start as low as $600/month.” That is more than he makes in a week. He certainly won’t be able to sustain paying for this. I started asking more questions and was transferred to som...

​I got the call today to set up a time for someone to come to the house Saturday to draw Ethan’s blood. What a cool perk of being part of a research study. I picked Avery up from the airport. She was able to go sight seeing today in Washington DC. She saw the Washington Monument and went to an art museum before hopping on a plane to go home. I got to work outside for a bit today. It was nice and cool in the shade. Moe is driving me nuts. At the islands, we walk a lot. I think he is getting cooped up. He asked to go out to lay in the sun about every half hour. I spent the evening listening to Paul and Ethan troubleshoot some issue he was having with the mower he bought. It sounded like a foreign language. Jiminy told me he would rather be cuddling in bed than listen to that boring stuff.  Jiminy and I snuggled in until Ethan came in and snatched him back. That little guy is so loved.

​ We got a note from the cardiology team that Ethan’s results from his research rejection testing came back a little wonky. Sometimes that can happen when there is an illness in the body or if there is rejection. He didn’t have an illness that we know of. This test is only slightly elevated. I am not too worked up about it. Ethan’s team would like him to have a repeat test to see what has happened over the last few weeks with the value. This test can only be done at the hospital. This is going to result in Ethan missing MORE work. I was annoyed for him. I had a few follow up questions around how that test would be scheduled, where can we go for that? Can we set up an appointment? How late can we schedule an appointment. My phone rang a bit later with an unknown number. My gut said to answer it. I normally don’t. Turns out, it was a man that wanted to assist in scheduling this for us. I explained that he worked from 7-4:30 Monday-Friday.  The man on the other end decided that he was...

​Today was less that stellar weather wise. My friend and her family went home early and I decided to as well. It was pouring. Might as well be driving. I could use the extra evening on Monday night to meal prep. I have lots of veggies to roast and chicken to cook. There are slim Pickens for the boys. After our company left, Paul and I got the camper ready for next weekend. We like to clean, vacuum and make sure all the trash is out of there. I made up the bed with fresh clean sheets. Paul left a few hours before I did. He took Ferguson and Jiminy. I called him to remind him that Neither one of those dogs should be sitting on the seat on the ride home. If Paul breaks too fast they could go flying. He had put them on the seats not even thinking about it. We could have dodged a bullet with that. I stopped at Wendy’s on the way home. Terrible idea. My stomach didn’t really care for that meal! Avery made it to Washington DC for her AAPT conference. The conference focus’s on specialized clas...

​it was a little cloudy this morning. We had coffee by the lake, did rock painting, a few walks up the road. By noon, we had an elegant mixture of snacks for royals. Yum.  I got out the Ninja slushie machine and made virgin slushies for the kids. Craig and Lois went on a road trip. I took care of Maggie and Mindy while they were away. They got a nice few long walks and some outdoor time as well. Craig was nice enough to let us take his boat out. We went over to the sandy bottom beach. It was busy over there. By this time the sun was out, the air was warm and humid. Sarah would not have been pleased with all the spiders that have crawled on me today. We took the kids in swimming and I was looking for rocks with them. We found some cool rocks. The kids fell asleep on the way back. It was a brief 6 minute nap. These kids are machines. They hold it together the majority of the day without a nap. My kids couldn’t handle that when they were that age. Avery discontinued her naps the week ...