Mid day today I lost access to all of my email capabilities due to the outlook outage. It borderline crippled me at work. Ugh! At least it didn’t happen on a Monday. There were more conversations about confusion with the in-laws today. I did lots of reading and learning about how to talk to people that have dementia and how to deal with-escalate situations. I had to use those skills today. Afterward of course I tried to play it back and looked for areas for improvement, but overall the conversation went well. I do want to make sure she is taken care of and feels comfortable enough to allow us to help. Help is the derogatory word….we are supposed to banish that word from our vocabulary. I am trying to replace that word with other words or phrases. “Let’s figure this out together” “Let’s get this sorted out for you.” These have a different spin and are received better than sentences with the work “help” in them. One more day until we don’t have to work!
Happy Vetran’s Day to all of those who have fought for our rights. Anyone that has joined the military in any capacity is amazing. “How important it is for us to recognize and celebrate our Heroes and She-roes!” —Maya Angelou I started the day with an heart echo. I went to the hospital, found the appropriate office and waited for 20 minutes prior to being called back. I had a student doing my echo. She said I had the most beautiful costal space. Nice! That is what probably attracted Paul most about me. This was a baseline echo to compare for when I age they can refer to this echo to make sure there are no changes. Paul had today off for Vetran’s Day. He spent the day busily working, in Paul fashion, outside. I was a little jealous, but used coping skills to overcome that. Ha! I had bought some candy cane Aldi brand Oreo cookies. They were delicious. I only had a few. Me-“ Have you had any of those candy cane cookies?” I asked Paul. I knew he had because there were a significant number ...