11/11/2026

Happy Vetran’s Day to all of those who have fought for our rights. Anyone that has joined the military in any capacity is amazing.

“How important it is for us to recognize and celebrate our Heroes and She-roes!” —Maya Angelou

I started the day with an heart echo. I went to the hospital, found the appropriate office and waited for 20 minutes prior to being called back.

I had a student doing my echo. She said I had the most beautiful costal space. Nice! That is what probably attracted Paul most about me. This was a baseline echo to compare for when I age they can refer to this echo to make sure there are no changes.

Paul had today off for Vetran’s Day. He spent the day busily working, in Paul fashion, outside. I was a little jealous, but used coping skills to overcome that. Ha!

I had bought some candy cane Aldi brand Oreo cookies. They were delicious. I only had a few.

Me-“ Have you had any of those candy cane cookies?” I asked Paul.

I knew he had because there were a significant number of cookies missing. Almost disgusting amount of cookies missing.

Paul “Yes! And I recommend you not buying any more of them!” Suspicions were confirmed of who ate all the cookies!!!

We may have to limit those so Paul doesn’t get Diabetes!

I received another concerned call from my in-laws doctor’s office. It pivoted my afternoon to do some investigative work. I was able to get everyone on board to a doctor’s appointment where I can go and be a part of it. My goal for this appointment is to at least make sure medications are being taken properly. 

I am likely going to be purchasing a timed pill dispenser with an alarm to sound when it is time to take medications.

I spent the evening reading up on how to have conversations that are supportive and how to avoid language that is upsetting while we navigate this issue. I learned a few phrases and things to avoid while trying to make sure she is safe.

Anosognosia - this is the word for people that are unable to recognize they have a memory issue. There has been degeneration to the frontal lobe and it affects the part of the brain that handles self awareness. This has not been diagnosed by the doctor, but I am certain this is what is happening now.