Ethan’s Journey

 Sarah came over this evening. There was a lot of deep gut laughing about stuff that was not important. She came in and shared that she had a difficult client and it made her think of one of the first times she had met me. We met by working at the same animal hospital at one point. We had a lot of fun during that short time and really clicked. It was the early 2000’s. She said that some older man was in a room and he was mean to her. She exited the room quietly. She said she was crying and I greeted her in the hallway. We didn’t really know one another very well but she had shared which room this guy was in. I walked by the room to assess the man. I realized he  had an oxygen tank and told her I was going to go knock the oxygen tank over so it exploded. That will teach him. (Of course I don’t do that). I have no recollection of these events. But can confirm that I would have that thought about the oxygen tank if I  felt someone was being mean. I am glad she remembered it ...

  Now started bugging me today to go outside. He was so annoying, that I threw his bed outside. I used a leash and secured him inside the house, and fed the leash under the door. He was secure in case a delivery person were to come.  I tossed his bed outside there and he laid like this for about 2 hours. Looking, watching and enjoying himself. The sun was out, the birds were singing and the temperature was delightful. Eventually he did nap. At one point I moved my work space outside and sat on my front porch to do some work. All the dogs were outside with me exploring the yard. Our one neighbor, he uses his leaf blower to daily blow out his driveway. I went inside at that point because the leaf blower is loud. 8 days left of work. Ethan went and got his new glasses fitted. I think they are the same as his old ones.  Ethan has to go for bloodwork this Saturday. Hoping everything looks good. I also have to go for bloodwork. Routine for my physical. That will be so fun. All ...

 Thank you Mother Earth for being SUNNY and decent today. With the wind, it was less muddy (still muddy) so I could at least let the dogs enjoy the outdoors. Penny was naughty and barking and was grounded to the inside. Typical. Ethan did some work on his go cart. He ended up going to bed early tonight. He was wiped out from being in the fresh air. All the dogs got their nails trimmed. I like doing it outside so I don’t have to worry about cleaning up the toenails. I took Moe for a walk today. He and I got our cardio in. The sun felt nice. The wind was a little obnoxious, but also appreciated to blow the winter funk out of the house. Welcome fresh air! I brought a few loads of wood inside and got the fireplace ready to fire up when it gets chilly again. We still have some cold coming our way. We also have the BAHAMAS coming our way. WOO HOO! Paul got the new mailbox up so we can get mail and it not have it blow away. Yay! 

 My big exciting news for today is that I got a new phone. It is fairly similar to the old phone, just has more memory and is slightly bigger. It too almost 3 hours from start to finish. I had to have small talk that entire time. I survived. I am feeling like a sailboat with no wind lately. I think I am just tired of the weather. Just feeling a bit blah. Hoping Grand Bahama will fix it. I think I just need sunshine and a little adventure for a few days.  Paul has started the replacement of our mangled mailbox. Somehow I bought a mailbox even bigger and more obnoxious than our existing mailbox, which is already comically large. We can fit several medium sized packages in it. I told Paul he now has a place to sleep if I ever kicked him out. Ha! Paul is rigging up a spinning device to help shield it from future snowplow hits. It is our “prevention loss mailbox” plan.  I already hate the mud and paws combination. More has been coming back with muddy paws. He has been nice eno...

 It was actually warm today. Legit windows open kind of day. The sun was shining, then it poured, then we would see the sun….that kind of day. Avery came over for a bit and she walked Moe with me. It’s still too wet for the shorter dogs. We walked on the road because the yard and field are grass soup. Avery dropped off some laundry. I helped make sure it was all washed and dried. I explained to her that I wasn’t feeling very useful and would love to help her save money by doing a few loads of her laundry. She brought over a couple loads. Ethan had a guy that he worked with come over. Ethan was helping him fix his far. Ethan and this guy were talking about a class that is offered at Ethan’s job. This guy is taking the class and Ethan might consider doing so as well.  That is still “to be determined”. Ethan is worried that he will be too tired to be able to attend 3 hours of class after a full work day. He already gets so tired at work and is exhausted when he comes home. I had ...

 I got int a conversation with a friend about marriage and how I would be a dating disaster if something ever happened to Paul. We got chuckling about our online dating profiles. “I would keep mine as honest as possible. I would want someone to know exactly what they were getting without any surprises.” I said. “What would that look on a dating profile?” “Independent, won’t always follow directions, doesn’t like to stand in lines, home body, the number of animals I have at a given time is never up for discussion, I don’t do dishes, I don’t like repetitive noises, can be unreasonable if pissed off, sometimes crabby for no reason, laughs at people getting injured once I know they are ok……but I feel I should include something kind of positive stuff…like…cleans up vomit if an animal gets sick, good at planning vacations, sometimes witty, good at managing finances, favorable credit score, doesn’t shop too much.” We laughed. “I may even include that I have a preferred yogurt spoon…..I am...

 I woke up delightful this morning. Greeted the dogs and Ethan. Paul gets home later today from his trip to Pittsburgh to work. As I started working, I notice how loud the traffic was today. I normally don’t notice this, but it was the ONLY thing I noticed today. I blame perimenopause. I almost went outside to shake a broom at them as they drove by. Because any sane person would do this right? I could pair it with shouting “GET A MUFFLER!” I had a person reach out to me that I hired early last year. She found me at a conference 6 months later so we could meet in person. Today she sent me a message sharing her latest certificate and the growth she has had in the clinic. I was so happy for her. I remember that the clinic she applied for wasn’t going to be a good fit for her and I directed her to her current clinic. I love when I get these follow ups! It made my day. I forgot all about the noisy cars pissing me off earlier. Yay! Avery and I met for our exercise on FaceTime. We chatted...